In a society where gendered norms heavily influence public perception, the need for men to actively support women’s reproductive rights is more urgent than ever. In Kenya, the struggle for Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR) is fraught with societal silence, restrictive laws, and a dwindling civic space. This situation is particularly challenging for women seeking access to safe abortion services, where stigma and fear often overshadow health and rights. In the face of such barriers, engaging men as champions is key to create safer abortion environments and support the collective resolve needed to address these pressing issues.
One of the most crucial areas where men can make an impact is in engaging in open, non-judgemental and respectful discussions around reproductive health that can aid in dismantling myths around abortion. Over the years, cultural taboos have led to abortion being cloaked in secrecy, with many individuals unwilling to even discuss the topic openly. For instance, initiating conversations with empathy and understanding, men can help normalize these discussions, dismantling the shame and stigma associated with abortion. Fathers, brothers, friends, and partners can contribute to building a culture where women feel respected, supported, and safe when making personal health decisions.
Men, especially young boys, should have access to information on reproductive health, including the right to safe abortion. This starts in the home, where fathers and male guardians can break down the traditional narrative that only women need to know about reproductive health. There is a need to promote inclusive discussions that include men, the community can empower both men and women to make informed choices and challenge harmful beliefs. In the long term, this investment in education could create a generation of men who view women’s reproductive health decisions as essential to the well-being of society as a whole.
Moreover, men must recognize and support the legal frameworks that protect reproductive rights. In Kenya, while abortion is legally permitted in certain cases, many women still struggle to access safe services due to social and institutional obstacles. Men who understand the legal context of abortion can use this knowledge to advocate for women’s rights in community forums, social groups, and even in their own families. Supporting safe, legal services can also help combat the spread of unsafe practices that threaten women’s lives, making it clear that this issue affects everyone.
Creating safe, judgment-free spaces for women is another powerful way men can contribute. This includes offering emotional and moral support to partners and friends facing reproductive health decisions, respecting their choices, and providing companionship throughout the process. Furthermore, men who hold influential community roles—be they religious leaders, chiefs, or elders—should use their positions to combat discrimination and promote inclusivity.
When men take a stand to protect women’s rights, the stigma that isolates women seeking abortions begins to erode, and in its place, a supportive, empathetic community can emerge. Notably, it’s important to acknowledge that safe abortion services benefit everyone. When women are able to make choices about their own bodies, they are more likely to thrive, contributing to the strength and resilience of families and communities. Men, as fathers, brothers, partners, and friends, are part of this dynamic. Embracing the opportunity to champion safe abortion services demonstrates a commitment to healthier, more equitable communities where every individual has the right to make decisions free from fear and discrimination. It’s time for Kenyan men to step up, engage, and become proactive supporters in the quest for reproductive justice.
This story was written and produced as part of 'Advancing Reproductive Justice: Inclusive Narratives, Voices, and Agency for Just and Fair Society' project supported by KELIN through subgranting.